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Subject: Inability to show my best
Date: 25-Mar-2002
Question: I am Varsha Tiwari a resident of MP. I am in 12 std maths faculty. My problem is that I am very weak in studies. Firstly I had to take maths because my parents wanted me to. I could not handle the subject properly and the result was that I failed miserably with marks which I wont even like to describe. My condition has become so bad that I was "pushed" to XII std. I was not like that till X. I obtained 70% in X boards. now again this is my board class and I want to give my best. I have joined coaching classes unlike last year. Simantaneously I have to prepare for PET for engg. admission. My problem is that however hard I try I am not able to show that I can also get good marks, like I had my physics test recently, I tried to give my best. Read the theory at leats 3 times, took self tests, made short notes everything. But it didn't do any good. Please tell me how should I study what should be my strategy so that I can obtain good marks and obtain the lost reputation of a good student and get selected in PET with a good rank and do very well in boards. please help me!
Answer: Dear Varsha,

First of all I must congratulate you for taking this step and writing out what is ailing you.

I suggest that you take the following steps immediately: Take an IQ test. That will instill confidence in you that you are no moron. You have won 40% of the battle. Then take a mathematical aptitude test. If you do well there too, the following will help you: Meet a sincere maths teacher, may be in school, who will tell you your weakness. Even if it means taking tuitions for 15 days to a month to brush up that portion of the Maths, it will be worth investing in. June is ending and you should be in shape by Mid July to late July.

Make a time table for your self for months till February 2003 and become a Valmiki. Do Tapasya, which means study, study and study. Practice writing , even English needs practice. You have to cover not only this year's higher stuff, but also to make up for the lost ground.

If you do not have mathematical aptitude, talk to your school people and see if you can change a stream now. Talk with your parents and I am sure they will listen.

Your counsel.